It can be really scary to outgrow your old life.

To loosen your grip on the people who offered just enough to meet some of your needs.
To stop repeating the justifications and excuses you used to keep half-in on old habits.
To say no, when no is the truth, but causes you and others pain.
To say yes, when yes is the truth, but brings immense uncertainty and challenge.
To admit and grieve all the ways you’ve abandoned yourself in the past and brushed it off as just another opportunity to grow or learn the lesson.
To confront yourself as you repeat an old pattern that often leaves you weeping and exhausted.
To pause and be still instead of spin out. To hold yourself amid intense discomfort.
To encourage yourself when you don’t know what life is going to look like when all this work lands.
To keep peeling away the layers you’ve used to hide from yourself and your deep, true desires.
To lift your gifts out of self-sacrifice and into sacred service.
To grow visibly rich in character, in grace, in worth, in articulating your heart, in love, in self-respect, in standards, in vision, in wealth, in creativity, in vitality.
To dismantle your loyalty in relationships where you aren’t loved well.
To break the contracts drafted in someone else’s best interest.
To craft purpose and work that doesn’t follow someone else’s blueprint.
To care for yourself in ways that don’t make sense to the people around you.
To walk away from thimbles full of love or attention or lip service.
To treat spite, jealousy, revenge, apathy, punishment, and violence as the deal breakers they are.
To unhook from the places you’ve attached yourself to blame.
To risk. To risk. To risk.

It can be really scary to outgrow your old life, especially when the new one isn’t fully formed yet. But indulging that fear keeps you looping, tired, and chronically unfulfilled. Instead, make the time. Build the capacity for more because YOU ARE MORE than the life you’re living right now. Your next iteration isn’t a fantasy, it’s a summons. Let the life inside you grow too big for the old containers. Let it spill over. Let it take up space.

I built this for the version of you that’s already emerging—the one that’s braver, clearer, ready to rise, ready to let it all land. Lux is your next step.